Many toddlers go through developmental phases in which they emulate the linguistic and physical behaviors of much younger children. If you toddler has been engaging in this behavior, here are a few essential points to consider.
It's probably nothing to worry about. Many a healthy, happy, intelligent toddler has made a sudden decision to act like a baby. And, for the most part, these toddlers go on to develop completely normally. In almost all cases, babyish behavior in toddlers is a simple behavioral and emotional phase. While it may come and go for a few months (or even years), it is generally temporary and normal.
It may reflect an emotional need. Toddlerhood and the early preschool years are tumultuous and highly emotional for children. Just as teens sometimes struggle with childlike behaviors as they cling to vestiges of their early years, toddlers often cling to babyhood as a source of comfort. They enjoy playing "baby" because it is comforting and familiar. Your toddler is especially likely to backtrack to babyhood during a time of stress, such as moving, a new baby, or entry into preschool.
Be sensitive and supportive. Your toddler won't be a toddler forever, and you'll enjoy these last few moments of his "baby" years if you accept them for what they are. If your two-year-old wants to be rocked to sleep, go for it. If your previously-weaned toddler wants to nurse, hold him against your chest and sing to him. If he wants to babble in babyish talk for a few days, let him do so -- but acknowledge that you can't understand him. Your child is more likely to outgrow regressive behavior if he feels confident and supported.
Watch for warning signs. Sometimes, when a toddler acts like a baby, he is actually showing signs of a serious medical condition. Toddlers that suddenly lose previously mastered skills in motor development or language may be coping with a degenerative disease. For example, if your toddler used to run and is suddenly unable to do so, he may have a neuromuscular condition. A toddler who was speaking in three-word sentences but has suddenly regressed to babbling full-time may be a victim of autism, lead poisoning or traumatic brain injury. These conditions are best diagnosed as early as possible.
Talk to an expert if you're worried.
If your toddler doesn't seem to be snapping out of his baby-like behaviors, it might be best to call your pediatrician or schedule a developmental evaluation. In the unlikely but plausible event that an undiagnosed medical condition is responsible for the regression, prompt diagnosis and treatment can help to mitigate its complications. Always defer to professional judgment when you are concerned about your child's health.
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