Making the Most of Preschool Video Games

Although I'd originally hoped that my daughter wouldn't be interested in video games until elementary or middle school, a family member gave my daughter a Leapster Explorer video game system when she was just three and a half. My preschooler now gets much enjoyment out of the video games, but I'm trying to maximize the educational benefits of these games while minimizing the negative behavioral and social impacts associated with preschool video games. Here are a few tips for making the most out of video games for preschoolers.

1. Talk about the games.

Take an active interest in your child's hobbies. Even at this age, when you probably already know everything there is to know about your preschooler's video games, it's a good idea to get your child talking. Ask your preschooler what his video games are about, which games he finds most enjoyable, and why he enjoys specific games. As your child gets older, you'll appreciate knowing about his interests and hobbies.

2. Discuss game play and strategies.

Many video games for preschoolers are made with the intention of teaching specific learning skills, but some kids miss the point, educationally speaking, when it comes to video games. Talk to your child about how she is making progress in her games and which strategies she is using to excel. By encouraging educational, strategic game-play through praise and conversation, you can help your child benefit from preschool video games.

3. Play along. One of the biggest problems associated with video games arises when the games become a substitute for human interaction. This is less of a problem when you involve yourself in your child's video game hobby. Try playing multiplayer games with your child, or work cooperatively to solve puzzles in educational games. Your participation can prevent your child from slipping into a world of social withdrawal.

4. Limit game play. This has been a challenging point for me, especially because my daughter's outdoor-play opportunities are limited during this time of year. However, it is very important for parents to place limits on the amount of time that children spend playing video games. Preschoolers should spend most of their time engaging in outdoor play, social interaction, arts and crafts, and hands-on creative play. Don't let your preschooler's enjoyment of video games crowd out other sources of entertainment.

5. Pick appropriate games. Your child will obviously benefit the most from video games that are developmentally appropriate and ultimately nonviolent. Check all video game ratings before purchasing anything for your preschooler, since kids in this age group are especially susceptible to suggestions of violence and danger. Aim to find games that suit your child's interests and will help to hone her skills in necessary areas. Appropriate parental involvement can enable your child to benefit from video games to the same degree that he might benefit from other moderated, educational hobbies.